Demeaning and frustrating

[Moocher]

The quality of pre-booking communications are important to me. The better and more positive the communications, the more I will feel at ease and look forward to the meeting. Any sort of overly terse , negative or cold responses in those communications will put an end to my interest. The pre-booking contact can also sometimes develop a little rapport before you meet which is nice. What is not nice however, is to find out when you meet the lady that you have not in fact been communicating with her at all but somebody else pretending to be her. If the escort has a friend who is helping her on this front, then can she please do so but not in a way that seeks to fool and ultimately demeans the client. Anyway, thats how I feel.Do others care or give a rats ?

[Eroticfunlover]

Communication is all important and a vital starting point. Only this morning I cancelled an appointment because of the girls attitude on the phone and the rudeness of her subsequent text

[Irelandbeautyyy]

Communication is all important and a vital starting point. Only this morning I cancelled an appointment because of the girls attitude on the phone and the rudeness of her subsequent text

Can I ask about her text?

We probably know each other even iam not sure who you are. I don’t think iťs me but let’s say…

I can be also maybe rude in some eyes. Other people would say iam the nicest person. So what does it mean? It really depends what a message I get or how people respect me and my way how i take bookings. How they talk with me. My patience is gone if someone doesn’t try to respect me. It also means if they bother to read my advert or not. I refuse all calls and it’s even first sentence in my advert. Sometimes i reply after many calls that i would give some advice to bother to read my advert before contact. Everyone takes from my text what they want. Some people give me their apology and later text me about what i ask. Some people start to be offended. If someone ask me if iam available in an hour as he is around, my reply is quite cold but polite, after third time when he asks about the same i have no problem to answer he should visit someone else as iam not interested anymore to meet them.

Is it all rude? I don’t know. For me not. Iam so polite and nice person if someone treat me how i deserve. If some provider ask me about something, i always try my best to do everything what is more comfortable for him. Iťs a respect for some provider in my eyes. Iťs me who needs that service. Not him as there is so many other costumers who are happy with the service.

Every escort ask about something different. This is my example.

[SophieX]

I’d imagine a fair few of you are speaking with guys

[Dieveiant]

I hate its if not the girl im speaking with on the phone because you will arranage appointment for 5pm confirm at 4:30 and il be on time and ring at 4:55pm to say im here then you get a reply ok i need 5 mins to get ready when you know shes ringing the actual lady in the apartment or hotel.5-15 mins later get txt i am ready if your lucky.
This has happened numerous times youl get half of the directions to floor of a hotel and your left walking around like a pleb.

Nowadays i like to think im wiser and i wont leave the car until i have clear directions right to the door and if i suspect a third party its a red flag right away especially if the call dials out of country.

[BarryD]

What is not nice however, is to find out when you meet the lady that you have not in fact been communicating with her at all but somebody else pretending to be her. If the escort has a friend who is helping her on this front, then can she please do so but not in a way that seeks to fool and ultimately demeans the client. Anyway, thats how I feel.Do others care or give a rats ?

major red flag for me ... has happened me in the past and just moved on straight away (simple as) ...
now once I know it's someone else answering or am told certain addresses / locations / nationalities
(nationals from a specific continent are notorious for it) hang up / look elsewhere
things you pick-up / learn along the way

I’d imagine a fair few of you are speaking with guys

one of the main reasons I turned my PM system off apart from advertisers ... no PMs from the gossip / needy / lonely sausages

[davidob555]

The third-party or “operator” as I have heard them referred to is a huge red flag for me, Are they using this operator purely because of the language barrier, do the not want to take calls if they are with a client or is there something more sinister at play, it makes me very nervous either way

[SophieX]

one of the main reasons I turned my PM system off apart from advertisers ... no PMs from the gossip / needy / lonely sausages

Wasn’t what I meant but have a thanks anyway 😛

Re-reading your post maybe it was hihi 🍆

[Eroticfunlover]

Can I ask about her text?

We probably know each other even iam not sure who you are. I don’t think iťs me but let’s say…

I can be also maybe rude in some eyes. Other people would say iam the nicest person. So what does it mean? It really depends what a message I get or how people respect me and my way how i take bookings. How they talk with me. My patience is gone if someone doesn’t try to respect me. It also means if they bother to read my advert or not. I refuse all calls and it’s even first sentence in my advert. Sometimes i reply after many calls that i would give some advice to bother to read my advert before contact. Everyone takes from my text what they want. Some people give me their apology and later text me about what i ask. Some people start to be offended. If someone ask me if iam available in an hour as he is around, my reply is quite cold but polite, after third time when he asks about the same i have no problem to answer he should visit someone else as iam not interested anymore to meet them.

Is it all rude? I don’t know. For me not. Iam so polite and nice person if someone treat me how i deserve. If some provider ask me about something, i always try my best to do everything what is more comfortable for him. Iťs a respect for some provider in my eyes. Iťs me who needs that service. Not him as there is so many other costumers who are happy with the service.

Every escort ask about something different. This is my example.

Hi Michelle. Yes we have met but it's definitely not you . I called this girl this morning at 10.09 to ask about an 11.30 appointment. She was pretty abrupt on the phone but I didn't mind because some girls are like that until you meet them so we arranged an 11.30 appointment.
At 10.37 I receive a text "Come at 11.15". I replied politely that I hadn't even left home and I could probably make it for 11.20 or 11.25 to which I received another text "11.15 is what I have take it or leave it ".
So I left it

[Palatine]

Hi Michelle. Yes we have met but it's definitely not you . I called this girl this morning at 10.09 to ask about an 11.30 appointment. She was pretty abrupt on the phone but I didn't mind because some girls are like that until you meet them so we arranged an 11.30 appointment.
At 10.37 I receive a text "Come at 11.15". I replied politely that I hadn't even left home and I could probably make it for 11.20 or 11.25 to which I received another text "11.15 is what I have take it or leave it ".
So I left it

Jesus. Even if that time would have worked for you, you were right to leave it.