An Interview with ... Carla Rios!
An Interview With... Carla Rios!
Hi guys, well it is that time again in which I have interviewed one of Ireland's most popular advertisers.
I have managed to make some time to interview one of the lovely E-I Advertisers, getting to know them more on a personal level and learn more about their experiences.
We all hope that you are excited about this interview and will enjoy reading every part of it.
PART 1:
Sofía: Hi there Carla Rios!
I'm so happy you agreed to doing this interview with me. As we all have seen, you have been quite active on the forum lately and everyone is dying to know more about you!
Let's get right on with it!
How did you decide to become an escort, and what led you to this profession?
Carla Rios: Hi Sofia
How are you?
I was very flattered and happy to be invited to this interview!
Thank you very much!
I started working as an escort in London.
I worked in another field, nothing involving sex and I had never done anything like that!
Then a friend invited me to dance at a strip club.
I danced classical ballet for many years, so dancing is something I enjoy doing. And I've always been very open to sex. This was not a taboo for me.
So I thought "Why not?"
But I had two problems: I didn't speak English well at the time and I'm very shy in public, In places with lots of people! So that didn't work out very well!
This same friend told me that she was going to visit an escort house and asked if I would like to go with her! And again I thought "Why not?"
The more intimate environment seemed more interesting to me! So I started dedicating myself to being an escort.
Sofía: WOW! Classical ballet dancer! I would love to see your moves! Why did you decide to advertise on EI and what do you think differentiates this platform from the others?
Carla Rios:The platform is very well known in Ireland and the one that works the most.
This is definitely a difference! I find everything about it easy to use, I didn't need much practice or explanations to learn how to use it!
And every time I've needed help, your support has been incredible! The entire team is always available to help me at any time!
Sofía: Thank you very much! We try to do our best!
Vaguely, can you describe the screening process you use to ensure safety and compability with clients? And how do you ensure both you and your client's privacy?
Carla Rios: I like hearing my clients’ voices and feeling their energy!
I also like polite customers, who, for example, start a conversation with
"Hi, how are you?"
I know it seems silly, but some guys are rude even in messages, forgetting the slightest bit of social etiquette.
Few assertive questions, these are fixed in the business! After all, I am an individual company and we are making a commercial agreement.
This shows the client's seriousness and that they genuinely intend to make an appointment.
Regarding privacy, I don't usually ask too personal questions, especially on the first date.
I am always open to listening to what the client wants to share with me, but I try not to be nosy!
Unfortunately our world is surrounded by a sexual taboo, so discretion is the key to having a good business!
Sofía: How do you handle boundaries and consent in your work?
Carla Rios: I have opening and closing times for work. I'm very strict about this!
Another thing is that I make it very clear what I offer and what I don't offer!
Just as I respect my clients, I hope to receive the same respect in return.
If a client wants something that I don't offer or if they behave in any way that is disrespectful, I will delete them from my client list!
Unfortunately this work is risky and I don't usually give second chances!
Sofía: What do you think diferenciates you from the other advertisers and makes everyone come back for more?
Carla Rios: I always try to have the environment and myself prepared and organised!
A clean environment, a good look, new and varied work clothes, good smell... I offer a complete experience, which starts from the moment the client arrives at my door! And this involves sex, but not only that!
I learned that this job is not just about beautiful looks!
So on days when I'm not in a good mood or if I'm tired, I turn off my phone!
I try to be a pleasant, friendly person, with good conversation, laughter, affection, almost like a friend with whom the client is having a date (very hot and sexy date)!
I try not to be robotic or mechanical! Because we are all human beings looking for a little affection and some fun!
Sex is sex, even when you're alone!
But even a minimal connection only happens with another person willing to share a good moment with you!
So I think this is the set of things that make my clients come back to see me again!
Sofía: What are some misconceptions about being an escort that you'd like to address?
Carla Rios: (I don't know if I understand this question well, so I'll give two answers.)
People think that escorts are forced to do what they do, or that they are poor, or even that they have less value than themselves! Or even those who do not have formal education, or who somehow do their job because they have no options in life.
I realise that some guys still have that image of the XVIII escort portrayed in the Industrial Revolution movies. Some women continue in these conditions!
But the women I know in Ireland have a completely different reality. They are intelligent, enterprising, fearless, and strong!
About the girls I think is a mistake is not planning properly and often not investing money well! There are very profitable months and others not so much!
I see this work in a very professional way and I see myself as a company.
Sofía: How has the internet and technology impacted your work?
Carla Rios: I started working after online advertising already existed and I have been growing and learning how to develop content on online adult product sales platforms, such as Escortfans.
Just as everything in the world is becoming more technological, escort work follows the same way!
It's something new every day and requires dedication and constant adaptation from me to learn these new trends. And I think this is an opportunity to grow and add to my income! But I have to say that producing digital content is not as easy as many people think!
Sofía: Can you share with us any challenges you've faced in your career and how you've overcome them?
Carla Rios: I think my biggest challenge was social and family.
As I said, there is a taboo surrounding this work that almost forces us,escorts, to keep it a total secret!
So my biggest challenge was sharing this with my family and close friends!
But the people I have around me respect my decisions without judgement!
So I believe I faced this with a lot of conversation and mutual respect.
Sofía: Have you ever found yourself in a "stranger than fiction" situation while working?
Carla Rios: I think that fiction portrays the world of escorts with a lot of romanticism (Like the movie "Pretty Woman") or with a lot of prejudice (or both).
I never experienced a great romance in this work, but I have had risky situations and some judgements.
But I prefer to remember the different and funny situations!
Like the time a guy paid me to play football with him in his room! He even brought a ball in his backpack! That was strange and fun.
Sofía: I'm sure you're amazing at football! What are your views on everything that's going on in the world?
Carla Rios: Right now, I think the most shocking thing that is happening is the situation in Palestine and Israel. And also the Russian and Ukrainian war.
My opinion is the same in both, they are people with a long and complicated history! I am not an expert on any of the subjects!
But this really worries and saddens me!
Unfortunately, I don't see how these two conflicts can end well! But I hope something is done to resolve all this as soon as possible! And so civilians stop suffering.
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