Straight but looking at TS bookings

[WeeJimmy]

So you wouldn't meet a ts post op ?

I have but wouldnt go back, great escorts but not for me as guys visit TS Escorts for the big weapon between their legs and the Milk, no other reason i;m afraid, Milk has skyrocketed recently and some now charging premium prices for it

[Hooker]

last time I waded into a discussion like this I was sent into the red. Ho hum lets see where on the chart I finish this time




We should consider that homosexuality was illegal in Ireland until as recently as 1993. Illegal!
To say nothing of it being against the Catholic faith, and consider the iron strangle hold the church had over people for centuries.
I'm not sure, the church probably still considers homosexuality sinful, but luckily no one cares what the church thinks anymore.
So after centuries of stigma perhaps the gay community feel the need to celebrate their sexuality openly to shake off stigma and to let other gay people who are hesitant to come out of the closet know that it's ok to be gay.
Or maybe they just enjoy dressing up and being fabulous.

You might well ask why we celebrated the Easter rising in 2016, we didn't fight in it or in the war of independence.
Why do we have a St Patricks day parade every single year? We didn't bring the faith here or drive the snakes out. All we did was be born Irish.

But gay parades, why have them when gay people want to be accepted as ordinary members of society, which they are, but then hold parades to celebrate how different they are.

Does a parade not defeat the purpose of what they are searching for, acceptance. In one breath they are saying 'I'm normal, please treat me as such" and in another breath "Oh look at me, I'm different, aren't I great". Celebrating your sexuality is a pointless act. I don't think I'm coming across right.

I think I'm saying, so what you're gay, shut up and get on with life, nobody gives a fuck, stop shouting about it.

[EscortInspector]

inb4 I'm not bisexual I just love to suck girl's cocks



It really doesn't matter how you choose to identify yourself, but rather how your behaviour corresponds to certain categories and definitions. Clearly there is a great sense of safety and comfort for bisexual men to maintain the "label" of "straight", "mostly straight", "straight but bicurious" etc. The only ones who seem hung up on "labels" are the ones who feel safe identifying as straight when they know their behaviour doesn't correspond to the definition or category. There's noting wrong with not being straight, but clearly there is some barrier to identifying as such.

[Mij]

last time I waded into a discussion like this I was sent into the red. Ho hum lets see where on the chart I finish this time




We should consider that homosexuality was illegal in Ireland until as recently as 1993. Illegal!
To say nothing of it being against the Catholic faith, and consider the iron strangle hold the church had over people for centuries.
I'm not sure, the church probably still considers homosexuality sinful, but luckily no one cares what the church thinks anymore.
So after centuries of stigma perhaps the gay community feel the need to celebrate their sexuality openly to shake off stigma and to let other gay people who are hesitant to come out of the closet know that it's ok to be gay.
Or maybe they just enjoy dressing up and being fabulous.

You might well ask why we celebrated the Easter rising in 2016, we didn't fight in it or in the war of independence.
Why do we have a St Patricks day parade every single year? We didn't bring the faith here or drive the snakes out. All we did was be born Irish.

More of a legal technicality here than a comment. It wasn't illegal to be gay, anal sex was illegal, or sodomy to give it the biblical name. It came from British law we inherited and not the Catholic church. However the Catholic authorities here were happy to keep the law on the books for as long as possible.
Similar laws are alive and well in many former British colonies today.

[TommyH123]

Where are we on being able to acknowledge that some of the ts’s on here are really kind of hot, is that gay?, am I gay now?

[Clubcard]

Where are we on being able to acknowledge that some of the ts’s on here are really kind of hot, is that gay?, am I gay now?

Not until you insert her penis in your mouth or ass. Until then you can call yourself what you want. But after that you're gay....... unless very drunk and then it doesn't count

[TommyH123]

Not until you insert her penis in your mouth or ass. Until then you can call yourself what you want. But after that you're gay....... unless very drunk and then it doesn't count

Good to know because if I’m gay now then I’m going to have to consider dressing better and maybe start some kind of skin care regime 😉

[Rooney2808]

I don't think sexuality is as binary as some in here make it out to be. I don't believe that if you do x then you're gay and if you do y you're straight, it's more fluid and changeable than that and often times doesn't need a label at all.
Many men here sleep with TS escorts and don't consider themselves gay or even bisexual they consider themselves straight men who occasionally like to sleep with TS, and that's fine.
I don't think its mine or anybody else here place to put a label on their sexuality.

[EthicalSexual]

I think heteroflexible is a great word, like a flexitarian...eating meat sometimes

[Clubcard]

I think heteroflexible is a great word, like a flexitarian...eating meat sometimes

Trysexual....... try anything once