Nervous to approach but need to lose virginity

[Jonny0]

I'm in my 20s and still a virgin, i really want to lose it but i'm so nervous to even talk to women,i have social anxiety, anybody else similar to me or have advice,i would really appreciate help

[Mij]

I'm in my 20s and still a virgin, i really want to lose it but i'm so nervous to even talk to women,i have social anxiety, anybody else similar to me or have advice,i would really appreciate help

I'd say this is more common than you'd imagine, there seems to be complete silence about virginity, the biggest of all sexual taboos even though we have all been virgins.
An escort may approach you here if you have a fear of approaching them, it would be a great way of getting over that psychological hurdle for you. The escorts on here would probably be very comfortable meeting you as opposed to someone looking to have rough sex or whatever.
If your problem is developing a relationship with an eye to having a family longer term it's a different issue, social anxiety is a major problem here. Don't be afraid to talk to a therapist about that, again I'd imagine it's a really common issue, especially for men.

[whoseyourdaddy]

From what you have said in your post, I really wouldn't recommend this for you right now.
Relax, take your time a bit, if it's not happening ok..try an escort. It's not ideal but the well reviewed girls will take care of you.

[Punter08]

Why do you need to lose it?
I think your 1st time should be with someone you know but that's just me.
If you still feel different however i am sure you could find a escort to help you out.

Good Luck.

[howardsteele]

I'm in my 20s and still a virgin, i really want to lose it but i'm so nervous to even talk to women,i have social anxiety, anybody else similar to me or have advice,i would really appreciate help

Practice in front of the mirror, when I started out I thought women were so different but they not much different to us guys really, just think of them as one of the lads, one of your mates and you will be ok

[MarkM2020]

I'm in my 20s and still a virgin, i really want to lose it but i'm so nervous to even talk to women,i have social anxiety, anybody else similar to me or have advice,i would really appreciate help

I think people put to much emphasis on losing your virginity. Some will say its better to do with someone special, if that's what you want just wait it'll happen eventually.

If you just want to just lose it and have a good time an escort is a good way to go. Just pick an established escort with a lot of good reviews, probably best to stay at least an hour and tell them about your situation even if a bit scary, they'll take care of you.

If you do decide to go with an escort for your first time don't let it create an unrealistic expectation for any future non-escort relationship you might have because it most likely will be better then most, especially for your first time.

Good luck 😊

[oldfool]

You are NOT unusual, far too much showboating by most lads, even if for me it was a long time back.
If you want to meet a lady from here then choose one carefully. Read her favourites. Only consider girls with a lot of reviews.
Send PM to punters who have reviewd her, telling them the position.
If you then choose phone the girl. As most girls keep phone converstions very short you may have to tell her you are sending her a PM to explain.
If you have chosen well the lady will be better than any first time girl friend.
Please bear in mind this is an addictive past time

[Peteropedro1]

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You ‘use’ your f.ing sock ! Not a human being !

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Grrr .

Terrible sorry luv! My mistake! I VISIT escorts then 😀😘

[ford pefect]

I'm in my 20s and still a virgin, i really want to lose it but i'm so nervous to even talk to women,i have social anxiety, anybody else similar to me or have advice,i would really appreciate help

I’m not sure if losing your virginity to an escort is a good idea, In my experience good sex with a good escort far exceeds domestic sex with a non escort,

[DiablosLittleBrother]

I’m not sure if losing your virginity to an escort is a good idea, In my experience good sex with a good escort far exceeds domestic sex with a non escort,

It's a terrible idea. He won't get to share the build up and anticipation with his girlfriend. He won't get to talk it out with feeling and caring. He won't get to talk and share how he and his girlfriend feels afterwards. He won't get to ly back with his girlfriend and feel the closeness and affection afterwards with the most important person in the world to him at that time.

There is no reciprocation in it. Him and the escort are on different wavelengths. He is having a monumental experience that should be shared with someone he feels for and who feels for him. Instead when he is finished losing it, there is no lying back with his girlfriend in his arms and enjoying the experience to its fullest. Instead he has to leave because his time is up because the woman he is with doesn't give a shit about him and rightly so. His head will be all over the place if he loses it to an escort and he will be left with more questions than answers, and he won't have the person he lost it to to talk it through.

It's a very bad idea.

And if you think sex with an escort is better than sex with a normal girl, you could not be more wrong.