Definitely some very good answers and views coming out of this thread seem to be getting clearer on what I want I definitely think I would go for it as if I dont try it will end up regretting it forever and end up grumpy old man lol

Are you ever in belfast sensual lauren?? Definitely wouldnt mind trying it with yerself as you seem to have hit the nail on the head exactly and has helped me make up my mind ya only live once better to live it