Dating escorts

[Sexy Fernanda]

Role play in Fantasyland.

Must be , in the last 6 months I had to end a handful of business meetings coz the guys though I had feelings for then ?
Besides been pretty good on what I'd some guys don't know where the line between business and personal life is drawn .

I'm talking about long term meetings , regulars I knew for over 2 years . All of them wanted to date , sorry but I don't do dating on the real world . I accept going for a dinner or even a overnight coz I enjoy the company plus the fee but doesn't mean I would do for free on my spare time. I always have something to do if I'm not working to which I rather not mention.


To be be honest , I think some guys get the buzz out of thinking he is getting something more valuable if he is not paying . Who knows ....

[nonpareil]

You always want what you can't have.

[nonpareil]

Goodness this makes us sound like we have no life at all other than escorting and the only people we know are clients..

I for one have a wonderful life outside of this business and have many friends and family that I choose to see and spend my down time with relaxing and being myself
I am well able to pay my own way when I choose to go out and not need to go out with someone just because I will get it for free. xx

Take me Out.

I'm broke.

[mexicanpete]

I was invited to the theatre, went and had a fantastic time.
Then we met often for lunch and dinner.
But never again for an appointment.
She lost a client and I lost my dream girl
But we both gained a friend!

Sorry for being curious but why did the sexual relationship end?

I think that it has only ever happened to me once with an escort. She was one of these beautiful, warm, sensual, South American girls and we had great sex together. Let us say that her name was Laura. We went out a few times and got on very well together and I came to know her as her real name, say Maria. However, after meeting Maria a few times, the sex started to go downhill.

The reason seemed to be that she could let herself go and have great sex in her persona of working girl Laura. However, Maria was quite a religious girl. Even though I was paying for the sex, Maria began to get in the way of Laura enjoying herself.
We struggled on for a few more appointments but it never really worked for any one of the three of us. She went home shortly later, never to appear again.

There is a footnote to this story, however. about two months after Maria leaving, I got a message from a girl to say that she was Maria's friend and that she would like to meet me. This was by no means the first or last time that I was 'passed on' but this turned into one of my longer relationships.

[sixfourblond]

Sorry for being curious but why did the sexual relationship end?

I think that it has only ever happened to me once with an escort. She was one of these beautiful, warm, sensual, South American girls and we had great sex together. Let us say that her name was Laura. We went out a few times and got on very well together and I came to know her as her real name, say Maria. However, after meeting Maria a few times, the sex started to go downhill.

The reason seemed to be that she could let herself go and have great sex in her persona of working girl Laura. However, Maria was quite a religious girl. Even though I was paying for the sex, Maria began to get in the way of Laura enjoying herself.
We struggled on for a few more appointments but it never really worked for any one of the three of us. She went home shortly later, never to appear again.

There is a footnote to this story, however. about two months after Maria leaving, I got a message from a girl to say that she was Maria's friend and that she would like to meet me. This was by no means the first or last time that I was 'passed on' but this turned into one of my longer relationships.

That sounds a wee bit complicated...

We simply agreed...no sex...and it was better without the complication...

[mexicanpete]

Must be , in the last 6 months I had to end a handful of business meetings coz the guys though I had feelings for then ?
Besides been pretty good on what I'd some guys don't know where the line between business and personal life is drawn .

I'm talking about long term meetings , regulars I knew for over 2 years . All of them wanted to date , sorry but I don't do dating on the real world . I accept going for a dinner or even a overnight coz I enjoy the company plus the fee but doesn't mean I would do for free on my spare time. I always have something to do if I'm not working to which I rather not mention.


To be be honest , I think some guys get the buzz out of thinking he is getting something more valuable if he is not paying . Who knows ....

You are quite right! Put the buggers in their place! How dare they presume on your affections!

I think that it is best that I make no comment on South American girls and dating.

However, it is ironic, looking at your profile, that with only a few extra inches in height I could be looking at the profile of a girl that I mentioned elsewhere in the thread. It has to be said that when it comes to sensuality, there is no one to match the South Americans.

[bootboy]

This is what I call Indirectly asking for a feebie xxx

I must be way behind the curve. In my day, a freebie would have involved sex.

[bootboy]

There are many ways dating a client would be ideal.
No "When do I tell him my job dilemma" that comes with civvy men.
The.complications of a client meeting family and friends in a relaxed atmosphere could mean a slip resulting in secrets being revealed.
Too complicated so that civvy man who sets my pulse racing and the clients I would jump on for free will remain separate from my private life or working life.

Strange when Married Clients ask me to be their girlfriend, now that's nothing but freebie seeking.

NOOOOOO. Do they want you to wear their scarf out as well ?

[mexicanpete]

There are many ways dating a client would be ideal.
No "When do I tell him my job dilemma" that comes with civvy men.
The.complications of a client meeting family and friends in a relaxed atmosphere could mean a slip resulting in secrets being revealed.
Too complicated so that civvy man who sets my pulse racing and the clients I would jump on for free will remain separate from my private life or working life.

Strange when Married Clients ask me to be their girlfriend, now that's nothing but freebie seeking.

This is the major dilemma facing escorts and the reason that many drift into long term relationships with clients. The reality is that there are very few men who you could tell that you worked as an escort and expect to keep the relationship successful. The doubts, insecurities and prejudices that most men carry around with them would compromise, if not end the relationship..

Most escorts that I have discussed this with feel that they could never tell a boyfriend about this job. However, this is a little like living with an unexploded bomb. There is the risk that it might go off at any and destroy everything.

[naturis]

This is the major dilemma facing escorts and the reason that many drift into long term relationships with clients. The reality is that there are very few men who you could tell that you worked as an escort and expect to keep the relationship successful. The doubts, insecurities and prejudices that most men carry around with them would compromise, if not end the relationship..

Most escorts that I have discussed this with feel that they could never tell a boyfriend about this job. However, this is a little like living with an unexploded bomb. There is the risk that it might go off at any and destroy everything.

?? lay off the drugs man ,some girls even work with their boyfriends , 99% have boyfriends/husbands in foreign countries they both go to work in foreign countries to earn it happens alot so they don't drift into anything maybe drift into more money from daft gobhshites