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    Question What is Domination to You?

    I recently did a bit of role play domination with one of my regular clients, as I know before we met he really only met up with Domme's and although I know he is enjoying the GFE I thought it would be a bit of fun. However, I by no means consider myself to be a Domme, as I have seen many real ones in action and believe myself to be far too much of a pussy cat to reach those levels.

    However... after the session was over he was insisting that I should add domination to my favourites, saying that I had done a better job than some of the other Escorts he had chosen for offering this service.

    I have thought about it and I still don't feel that I should, after all, I've only got a paddle, a cane and a strap-on (which I need L-plates for) and I'm very green behind the ears.

    So... I'm now wondering what exactly do clients want from a Domme? Should there be levels of domination offered?, i.e. if I could put down that I was a grade 3 Domme (light domination) then I would be happy, but I'm no where near the level 1 say of Sexy Jessica or Miss Alisha and I believe the clients that see them would consider me a joke.

    What do you look for in a Domme?
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    Hi Kate, firstly thanks for your open and honest email. It is refreshing to see such an approach in a business where service providers often become jaded.

    With regard to your question, I think that domination is far more psychological than being about inflicting pain. For me, it is about giving up control to an attractive woman who likes kinky play. If you want to discuss some more, please pm me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate View Post
    I recently did a bit of role play domination with one of my regular clients, as I know before we met he really only met up with Domme's and although I know he is enjoying the GFE I thought it would be a bit of fun. However, I by no means consider myself to be a Domme, as I have seen many real ones in action and believe myself to be far too much of a pussy cat to reach those levels.

    However... after the session was over he was insisting that I should add domination to my favourites, saying that I had done a better job than some of the other Escorts he had chosen for offering this service.

    I have thought about it and I still don't feel that I should, after all, I've only got a paddle, a cane and a strap-on (which I need L-plates for) and I'm very green behind the ears.

    So... I'm now wondering what exactly do clients want from a Domme? Should there be levels of domination offered?, i.e. if I could put down that I was a grade 3 Domme (light domination) then I would be happy, but I'm no where near the level 1 say of Sexy Jessica or Miss Alisha and I believe the clients that see them would consider me a joke.

    What do you look for in a Domme?
    Hi Kate, first thanks for your honesty.
    I think a lot of guys would like u just to take control, speak "bossy" to them , order them into certain positions, get them to wear some undies or tights/stockings, make them worship you (enjoyment for both parties!), use the toys/strapon on them if they wish, and finish with a nice HJ or BJ or penetration depending on what you or the guy prefers...

    You are well equipped already with the paddle cane and strapon!
    You might want to invest in a few toys to "start with" , for loosening up so to speak!
    I think most guys would love this, without moving to the other levels of bondage, pain, etc
    Hope this helps

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    Quote Originally Posted by hottrod101 View Post
    Hi Kate, first thanks for your honesty.
    I think a lot of guys would like u just to take control, speak "bossy" to them , order them into certain positions, get them to wear some undies or tights/stockings, make them worship you (enjoyment for both parties!), use the toys/strapon on them if they wish, and finish with a nice HJ or BJ or penetration depending on what you or the guy prefers...

    You are well equipped already with the paddle cane and strapon!
    You might want to invest in a few toys to "start with" , for loosening up so to speak!
    I think most guys would love this, without moving to the other levels of bondage, pain, etc
    Hope this helps
    Thank you to both of you.

    How would I make this level of domination expressed without going into full details on my advert? Is there any BDSM jargon that I'm not aware of that describes this for those in the know? Mild domination?

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    Kate
    I don't know if there is a technical term but if I saw "light dom with happy ending of your choice " I'd be more than happy!!!
    :-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Anitafan View Post
    Hi Kate, firstly thanks for your open and honest email. It is refreshing to see such an approach in a business where service providers often become jaded.

    With regard to your question, I think that domination is far more psychological than being about inflicting pain. For me, it is about giving up control to an attractive woman who likes kinky play. If you want to discuss some more, please pm me.
    What an interesting and thought provoking reply....... now you are making me think .................

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    Quote Originally Posted by willieh View Post
    What an interesting and thought provoking reply....... now you are making me think .................
    As you are me! Which bit is making you think? Please share your thoughts. I would be very interested.

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    Hmmm... so what possibily would one hope for with mild domination?

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    Quote Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate View Post
    Thank you to both of you.

    How would I make this level of domination expressed without going into full details on my advert? Is there any BDSM jargon that I'm not aware of that describes this for those in the know? Mild domination?

    Mild Domination indeed. so no punishment, no extreme pain, no humiliation just Sensual Domination.
    Last edited by FetishCherry; 15-07-14 at 20:26.
    Always Smile

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    Quote Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate View Post
    I recently did a bit of role play domination with one of my regular clients, as I know before we met he really only met up with Domme's and although I know he is enjoying the GFE I thought it would be a bit of fun. However, I by no means consider myself to be a Domme, as I have seen many real ones in action and believe myself to be far too much of a pussy cat to reach those levels.

    However... after the session was over he was insisting that I should add domination to my favourites, saying that I had done a better job than some of the other Escorts he had chosen for offering this service.

    I have thought about it and I still don't feel that I should, after all, I've only got a paddle, a cane and a strap-on (which I need L-plates for) and I'm very green behind the ears.

    So... I'm now wondering what exactly do clients want from a Domme? Should there be levels of domination offered?, i.e. if I could put down that I was a grade 3 Domme (light domination) then I would be happy, but I'm no where near the level 1 say of Sexy Jessica or Miss Alisha and I believe the clients that see them would consider me a joke.

    What do you look for in a Domme?
    For some guys Domination means punishment and humiliation but for most guys Domination means just the lady in control
    Always Smile

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