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    Quote Originally Posted by dr love View Post
    Yes its racism full stop .: doc
    Without question, however escorting is a very personal business and in this case right or wrong the escort can do as they please without explanation.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Deven View Post
    Without question, however escorting is a very personal business and in this case right or wrong the escort can do as they please without explanation.
    And I agree escorts have the right to choose whom they wish to see .
    I'm glad I never judge or listen to the media hype about different nationalities , jeezee all those beautiful Romanians ladies I've had the pleasure to meet .: doc
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    i think it's up to to the escort. it's her body, her time and her service. As you said it's a personal and intimate job. You want
    someone with whom you can be comfortable, someone you can control (i.e. caution them), someone with whom you can easily have an enjoyable intimate session.

    However,after being on the other side of the fence while i was in england.(confused for a scottish?) the following questions spring to mine.

    is everyone from a particular group or nation the same?

    Also, i believe escorts are in control of the appointment, if a client doesnt play by the rules, you have the right to kick him out.
    what's stopping you from doing so?

    Now if someone has big one or looks aggressive or sounds disrespectful or might be an acquaintance(i.e. same country), that's understanding.

    Correct me if i'm wrong but i think if an escort lay the ground rules for any suspecting client, things she doesnt like, things she likes, how the appointment will play out. i think things will work out for both parties.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rachel Divine View Post
    I put ?! because I wonder of it could be called racism the choice an escort makes not to meet people of certain nationalities/nationality.

    Surely most of the time the accent will be spotted by the lady and she can refuse the booking if she wishes, based on the accent the caller has.

    Of course, the booking can be refused for any reason, but I am focusing on the perceived nationality.

    Is it racism or simply a matter of choice the escort makes, taking in account that escorting is a very personal and intimate job. ?!

    What's your take?

    Will say my view on this later on.
    Well in a sense does that make all choice racist? Put the shoe on the other foot say a guy has a preference for seeing say for
    example Brazilian ladies, does that make him a racist because he dosent want to see Asian or European or African ladies?
    Where do u draw the line? where does racism begin and end? Obviously the guy chooses to see Brazilian ladys because they
    may have certain Physical traits or personality traits that he likes, does the fact that he likes that group more that other groups
    make him a racist? I presume if u take the definition to its extreme it does.
    In todays PC world the lines have become very blurred where it just seems not acceptable anymore to have a simple preference
    for one thing over another
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    I do believe you have to stay within your comfort zone. For me personally a rejection would have nothing to do with the nationality, but the ability to be able to communicate. I only speak English and thankfully for me, most people know enough English to get by whatever their nationality, but for those with very little to no English I would not feel safe or comfortable, as they may not understand my limits, so would say no.

    As long as the lady is polite with the refusal and does not say anything to make them feel she does not respect them as a person, then of course it is her right to say no. However, if she were to refer to their nationality in a disrespectful way, then I think that would be totally out of order and not on. No one has a choice as to where they were born, so it is wrong to not see them as equal purely on that basis.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ber View Post
    Well in a sense does that make all choice racist? Put the shoe on the other foot say a guy has a preference for seeing say for
    example Brazilian ladies, does that make him a racist because he dosent want to see Asian or European or African ladies?
    Where do u draw the line? where does racism begin and end? Obviously the guy chooses to see Brazilian ladys because they
    may have certain Physical traits or personality traits that he likes, does the fact that he likes that group more that other groups
    make him a racist? I presume if u take the definition to its extreme it does.
    In todays PC world the lines have become very blurred where it just seems not acceptable anymore to have a simple preference
    for one thing over another
    No, that doesnt make him racist. What makes him racist is if there is an Irish, Asian or African girl with the same physical traits or personal traits as the brazillians and he reject her. Now that's racist because it defiles equality. that is the core definition of racism. there is no blurred lines here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rachel Divine View Post
    I put ?! because I wonder of it could be called racism the choice an escort makes not to meet people of certain nationalities/nationality.

    Surely most of the time the accent will be spotted by the lady and she can refuse the booking if she wishes, based on the accent the caller has.

    Of course, the booking can be refused for any reason, but I am focusing on the perceived nationality.

    Is it racism or simply a matter of choice the escort makes, taking in account that escorting is a very personal and intimate job. ?!

    What's your take?

    Will say my view on this later on.
    A Racist is a person who believes another races is inferior to their own....So If you dislike certain nationalities, you aren't racist just prejudiced or even a xenophobe, there's a difference......

    In this profession (or not even) it's your personal choice who you wanna see or talk to. Just like punters choosing by nationality etc...
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    Alright. Be against a certain nationality as a whole, inside and outside this job is racism. Choosing to not to get intimate with a certain nationality is own preference. As money is involved the escort should not be in the position to meet everyone if she is not comfortable with it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ber View Post
    Well in a sense does that make all choice racist? Put the shoe on the other foot say a guy has a preference for seeing say for
    example Brazilian ladies, does that make him a racist because he dosent want to see Asian or European or African ladies?
    Where do u draw the line? where does racism begin and end? Obviously the guy chooses to see Brazilian ladys because they
    may have certain Physical traits or personality traits that he likes, does the fact that he likes that group more that other groups
    make him a racist? I presume if u take the definition to its extreme it does.
    In todays PC world the lines have become very blurred where it just seems not acceptable anymore to have a simple preference
    for one thing over another
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rachel Divine View Post
    I put ?! because I wonder of it could be called racism the choice an escort makes not to meet people of certain nationalities/nationality.

    Surely most of the time the accent will be spotted by the lady and she can refuse the booking if she wishes, based on the accent the caller has.

    Of course, the booking can be refused for any reason, but I am focusing on the perceived nationality.

    Is it racism or simply a matter of choice the escort makes, taking in account that escorting is a very personal and intimate job. ?!

    What's your take?

    Will say my view on this later on.
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