SophieX (03-05-14)
Never mistake kindness for weakness .: doc
Deven (03-05-14)
i think it's up to to the escort. it's her body, her time and her service. As you said it's a personal and intimate job. You want
someone with whom you can be comfortable, someone you can control (i.e. caution them), someone with whom you can easily have an enjoyable intimate session.
However,after being on the other side of the fence while i was in england.(confused for a scottish?) the following questions spring to mine.
is everyone from a particular group or nation the same?
Also, i believe escorts are in control of the appointment, if a client doesnt play by the rules, you have the right to kick him out.
what's stopping you from doing so?
Now if someone has big one or looks aggressive or sounds disrespectful or might be an acquaintance(i.e. same country), that's understanding.
Correct me if i'm wrong but i think if an escort lay the ground rules for any suspecting client, things she doesnt like, things she likes, how the appointment will play out. i think things will work out for both parties.
Countrygent (03-05-14)
Well in a sense does that make all choice racist? Put the shoe on the other foot say a guy has a preference for seeing say for
example Brazilian ladies, does that make him a racist because he dosent want to see Asian or European or African ladies?
Where do u draw the line? where does racism begin and end? Obviously the guy chooses to see Brazilian ladys because they
may have certain Physical traits or personality traits that he likes, does the fact that he likes that group more that other groups
make him a racist? I presume if u take the definition to its extreme it does.
In todays PC world the lines have become very blurred where it just seems not acceptable anymore to have a simple preference
for one thing over another
Blatant promotion should be outlawed
but
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Cable87 (03-05-14), Countrygent (03-05-14), Hot Olivia (03-05-14), TonyStark (03-05-14)
I do believe you have to stay within your comfort zone. For me personally a rejection would have nothing to do with the nationality, but the ability to be able to communicate. I only speak English and thankfully for me, most people know enough English to get by whatever their nationality, but for those with very little to no English I would not feel safe or comfortable, as they may not understand my limits, so would say no.
As long as the lady is polite with the refusal and does not say anything to make them feel she does not respect them as a person, then of course it is her right to say no. However, if she were to refer to their nationality in a disrespectful way, then I think that would be totally out of order and not on. No one has a choice as to where they were born, so it is wrong to not see them as equal purely on that basis.
Cassandra (03-05-14), Countrygent (03-05-14), Deven (03-05-14), ERIKA LOVEFORU (04-05-14), Hot Olivia (03-05-14), Irish Sarah (03-05-14), rob_tig (03-05-14)
No, that doesnt make him racist. What makes him racist is if there is an Irish, Asian or African girl with the same physical traits or personal traits as the brazillians and he reject her. Now that's racist because it defiles equality. that is the core definition of racism. there is no blurred lines here.
A Racist is a person who believes another races is inferior to their own....So If you dislike certain nationalities, you aren't racist just prejudiced or even a xenophobe, there's a difference......
In this profession (or not even) it's your personal choice who you wanna see or talk to. Just like punters choosing by nationality etc...
Last edited by Hot Olivia; 03-05-14 at 19:27.
Somewhere over the rainbow.
Curvaceous Kate (03-05-14), Deven (03-05-14), funlover12 (03-05-14), Irish Sarah (03-05-14), Renatha Lopez (03-05-14), TonyStark (03-05-14)
Alright. Be against a certain nationality as a whole, inside and outside this job is racism. Choosing to not to get intimate with a certain nationality is own preference. As money is involved the escort should not be in the position to meet everyone if she is not comfortable with it.