Escorts and Relationships

[conanthegreat]

Been single a long while and I was just wondering is it because of escorts like am I taking the easy option all the time , like obviously your nice to escorts and they are to you but in the real world being nice just gets you walked on and laughed at as girls like guys who are dickheads so do escorts make you soft when it comes to meeting women in the real world like you hear what you want to hear with an escort but in the real world girls can really crush your ego which is hard to recover

[TonyStark]

In a way part of what you say makes sense but I don't see it as the easy option, just need a release that isn't self inflicted.

I'm not sure if it's a confidence issue or just can't be arsed with girls in the "real world" as like you I have experienced girls that are complete bitches and have noticed that most of the girls I'm attracted to tend to go with guys that treat them like shite.

Sometimes I think I need a girl to hit me over the head with a hammer to show that she's interested as I just don't see the signs, example being a girl at the gym who's smiled a few times and I've caught her looking few times too but I'm fucked if she's just being friendly or geniunely interested.

Also part of me, esp after a meeting, thinks I have this really guilty look like people know what I've been up to even though I'm single and can have sex with whomever I want, obviously consensual.

So yeah, just a release although there are some escorts I've met that I genuinely wish I had met under different circumstances but I guess that's the nature of this hobby and we have to always remember what it is we are doing.

[Bambam1]

Been single a long while and I was just wondering is it because of escorts like am I taking the easy option all the time , like obviously your nice to escorts and they are to you but in the real world being nice just gets you walked on and laughed at as girls like guys who are dickheads so do escorts make you soft when it comes to meeting women in the real world like you hear what you want to hear with an escort but in the real world girls can really crush your ego which is hard to recover

Are you talking about the fake orgasms the escorts have while your one night stand tells you your willy is tiny if so yes ive bin told this aswell funny enough the one night stand had a vagina like a Bucket

[celticden]

after a first bad punt i'm thinking the same, think its a sign to really make more of an effort to interact and socialise more with women because Im finding after being with escorts you think about sex alot which is not great to be thinking when your talking to a girl

[conanthegreat]

like obviously you go to an escort for sex but it would be great if they were honest and gave pointers like how you walk in how you act and how you should make a move on a women like i could be horrible but the escorts will obviously lie and say your great and they probally been with loads of hunks so they should know

[conanthegreat]

Are you talking about the fake orgasms the escorts have while your one night stand tells you your willy is tiny if so yes ive bin told this aswell funny enough the one night stand had a vagina like a Bucket

well aleast your getting a one night stand in the first place haha

[celticden]

In a way part of what you say makes sense but I don't see it as the easy option, just need a release that isn't self inflicted.

I'm not sure if it's a confidence issue or just can't be arsed with girls in the "real world" as like you I have experienced girls that are complete bitches and have noticed that most of the girls I'm attracted to tend to go with guys that treat them like shite.

Sometimes I think I need a girl to hit me over the head with a hammer to show that she's interested as I just don't see the signs, example being a girl at the gym who's smiled a few times and I've caught her looking few times too but I'm fucked if she's just being friendly or geniunely interested.

Also part of me, esp after a meeting, thinks I have this really guilty look like people know what I've been up to even though I'm single and can have sex with whomever I want, obviously consensual.

So yeah, just a release although there are some escorts I've met that I genuinely wish I had met under different circumstances but I guess that's the nature of this hobby and we have to always remember what it is we are doing.

the same thing with a girl at my gym but she was friendly and smiled alot at me and we talked a bit at the water cooler but now shes kind of cold and theres no eye contact anymore in my head i'm like "well fuck you too then " haha don't understand it but i'd have no idea how to pick up a girl at the gym anyway

[TonyStark]

the same thing with a girl at my gym but she was friendly and smiled alot at me and we talked a bit at the water cooler but now shes kind of cold and theres no eye contact anymore in my head i'm like "well fuck you too then " haha don't understand it but i'd have no idea how to pick up a girl at the gym anyway

Yip I get that, days where I'm getting the eye contact, then other days getting fuck all signs and I'm like whatever lol and yip I have no idea how to approach girls in the gm either lol

[celticden]

like obviously you go to an escort for sex but it would be great if they were honest and gave pointers like how you walk in how you act and how you should make a move on a women like i could be horrible but the escorts will obviously lie and say your great and they probally been with loads of hunks so they should know

yeah ! it should be a favourite ,htgg how to get girls hahaha ,yeah maybe i should be looking at appointments as lessons on how to get a girlfriend haha, i like the sex and everything and gfe are great but you go home after the appointment you do feel a bit empty after it just not the same as a girl thats into you

[libra]

Nice guys always come last; girls like bad guys;