feeling suicidal after a night out ???

[Westsidex]

I dunno if it's the drink not agreeing with me ,or I have jus had my limit of little success with women or life I just get bit high when I'm out nd chatty with drink but when I go home again to my empty house feeling majorly depressed dunno if it's bipolar or what ?

another thing. Dont believe half the shit you are told by your mates. I have met women where we just kissed and that was it. Every guy will tell you he has sex with x,y and z but in actuality they have sex with f'all. Look at how awkward women can be? do you really think they just jump on a guy? Mostly not.

Westside.

[filthhammer666]

From someone having a sibling who had depression and suicidal problems. Only a trained profession can help you. You need to speak to a docotor who can help and assist you with different optoins. A doctor should point you to a professional person that you can talk to and advise you. There is help out there, but you need to ask for it and the first step is speaking to a doctor.

as well as this piece of advise I would also advise you to cut out drink, take up exercise join a gym for example, and stick to a healthy diet. if you want to meet women join a night course or do some volunteering. not only volunteering a good way to meet people its also good for the soul, you are helping people!! if you meet girls your own age at these courses or whatever its best just to be friends with them because good friends that you meet in real life are the best. in all fairness its a lot better than just having friends on an internet message board. you never know you might meet someone who might take a shine to you and that's where true happiness lies!!

[rfc19781]

he hasnt been on since that post. Just saying like

[filthhammer666]

he hasnt been on since that post. Just saying like

ooh ok. well if he ever decides to read the thread then he will know there are people out there that want to help and hopefully he will read the comments and follow some of the advice that is being given.

[rfc19781]

nevermind

[filthhammer666]

nevermind

pardon??? what are you getting at??

[Westsidex]

pardon??? what are you getting at??

Id say he has the hots for you.

ah the shine is coming into your life,
Westside.

[Slim Pickings]

Hey CD , Just reading your post and some of the replies . My tuppence hapenny for whats its worth is to dwell on the positives in your life rather than the negatives . Women, whether they are Escorts or not are not the solution . Ok Escorts are always only a phonecall away and are a buzz for that hour or whatever but its not a healthy way to find people to interact with .The day visiting Escorts stops been fun its time to walk away .

I would suggest as others have already mentioned , firstly go to a GP and give up drinking but also get involved with local community organisations . There are a lot of good people doing this and its a great way of getting out n about and giving something back to your neighbours ,local kids and the elderly . It will open up a whole new scene and is a great self esteem builder.

Whatever you decide to do i wish you well and remember that there are graveyards all over the country full of people who would love to be like you , alive and kicking .

Slim

[samlad]

I used to feel the same. Alcohol is a depressant, so when you come back home after the buzz of being out, it is normal to feel like that. In fact, I stopped going out because I just felt like shit when I came home. Funnily enough, I felt different if it was a night out followed by a one night stand

[Playitsam]

Well CD hope all is well and things look better now than they did when you first posted .

An word of advice from and old timer . You may need to loose your friends and start again . Some people just try to bring you down and you don't need that .
Judge you success in life on other things , try money it works for me , the more you make the better you feel the more confident you become . The confidence builds self esteem and that alone will attract some fantastic ladies . Do you really want to score with a drunken semiconscious slapper at a night club anyway , do you think that will make you happy ?

Yes use escorts to relieve the sexual tension ok but that's their only function , they are not you lovers or partners . They are a substitute .

Be well buddy