dicks and confidence

[mer]

Does having a big dick give you confidence? I mean mine ain't big like and I have 0 confidence around it that's why I don't even bother with the club scene I'm embarrassed about it tbh ha

I'm guessing if you are well hung you have loads of confidence and can relax knowing she won't laugh at your member or giggle in her head.

That's another reason why I have only visited escorts cause you know if you are totally embarrassed about how it went you won't have the fear of bumping into them again with shame of them seeing your little willy

God I hate it LOL it's stops me from doing everything like going out and stuff cause I'm embarrassed about it

Now I have to pay to show off my little willy haha

That's life sure fuck it ha

[samlad]

Yes, it does

[mer]

Yes, it does

Your one of the lucky ones then

[samlad]

Mer, your cock isn't the be all and end all of life. Obviously you're a funny guy in a random sort of a way. Women are just people. Talk to them and you never know what could happen. Establish friendships, but don't get too friendly, otherwise:

[mer]

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Thanks for that now I feel even more embarrassed. Think I will just hide it in my pants for the rest of my life

[mer]

Mer, your cock isn't the be all and end all of life. Obviously you're a funny guy in a random sort of a way. Women are just people. Talk to them and you never know what could happen. Establish friendships, but don't get too friendly, otherwise:

Lol thanks dude think I will be growing old by myself tho

But cheers anyway it's too tough for me lol

[samlad]

Lol thanks dude think I will be growing old by myself tho

But cheers anyway it's too tough for me lol

Ask yourself, "what do I want from life?" and set your goals. You have to make your own luck in life. Get yourself sorted out first, and when you do, you'll feel more confident in yourself, then you can focus on the ladies

[maxSteele]

it's not about the size. it's about how you use it.
having a big( or average one) is not all great either.
there are some disadvantages:
first, Anal is a no-no for most girls.
for vagina sex, some girls complain about the size,the words
"go slow" and "no doggy" becomes familiar phrases
forget deepthroat
rough sex is rare

so, you see having a big one is not all that

[Kendra]

I don't think any of those first few comments were of any help to Mer.

In my experience there is a fine line between confident and a total fucking arsehole lol. I have had some of the shittiest sex of my life with guys with big cocks cause they don't know how to use it properly, they just rely on how it looks to get by.

Don't get me wrong I am sure there are plenty of men with big cocks who do know how to use them but I have yet to meet them.

What you may class as small sweetie, others may not. I know what its like to be body conscious about something (we all get it) its how we deal with it that makes the difference.

I am saddened that your problem stops you from doing normal, everyday things. I think you may be attracted to the wrong types of girls/women if they are so shallow enough to dismiss you based on something so superficial when I am sure you have many other qualities. I have obviously never met you but from your posts I can tell your a very nice person, genuine person, friendly and funny.

Maybe see escorts and practice some really good reverse oral and the use of toys on them, things like that can make up for your problem in the bedroom (that's if it really is a problem and not mostly just in your own head)

xx

[Yamser]

this is good also maybe if you ask an escort for tips on how to be better , and ask her to be completly honest if your doing it right or wrong and ask them to show you what to do and what not to do . my problem is i ask the ladies was i good is it ok they say yes but i dont believe them as they just want to keep me happy , i would consider it constructive critism ,

sure mer look at the poll whos your fav poster , your top of the list you should be strutin your stuff buddy

fingers , tounges , vibrators , strap ons , dildos , cock rings these are things that you can use on women if your cock isnt big enough (im sure it is)

alot of women would love just cuddles and massages and love making , its not like in pornos man , you dont need a huge cock to satisfy a women just a big heart , and you my friend have a big heart

I don't think any of those first few comments were of any help to Mer.

In my experience there is a fine line between confident and a total fucking arsehole lol. I have had some of the shittiest sex of my life with guys with big cocks cause they don't know how to use it properly, they just rely on how it looks to get by.

Don't get me wrong I am sure there are plenty of men with big cocks who do know how to use them but I have yet to meet them.

What you may class as small sweetie, others may not. I know what its like to be body conscious about something (we all get it) its how we deal with it that makes the difference.

I am saddened that your problem stops you from doing normal, everyday things. I think you may be attracted to the wrong types of girls/women if they are so shallow enough to dismiss you based on something so superficial when I am sure you have many other qualities. I have obviously never met you but from your posts I can tell your a very nice person, genuine person, friendly and funny.

Maybe see escorts and practice some really good reverse oral and the use of toys on them, things like that can make up for your problem in the bedroom (that's if it really is a problem and not mostly just in your own head)

xx