ex escort ....

[Baxter]

I know what your saying. But honesty is huge to me in a relationship. Plus keeping a secret from someone will burn away at you for a long long time. I am one of these people that believes honesty will build a stronger relationship and it all just depends are you able to live your life knowing your not fully honest with the person you are spending your life with.

Do you think I should sit my longterm partner down tomorrow and explain to her that unbeknownst to her I have visited x number ( a lot ! ) of escorts in the past or do you think I should just stop it immediately, say nowt and get on with our very good relationship ?

[BrunetteIrene]

Say you escorted for 3 years, then stopped and got an ordinary job for 3 years and then met a man you think you might like to marry or have a personal relationship with him. If he would never discover your past escorting, do you think you would want to tell him anyway for the sake of honesty ?

yes ...i think if you are honest is more better ...if him is the man what you want for the rest of your life

[fundave]

Do you think I should sit my longterm partner down tomorrow and explain to her that unbeknownst to her I have visited x number ( a lot ! ) of escorts in the past or do you think I should just stop it immediately, say nowt and get on with our very good relationship ?

The difference between what you and Irene is its in her past. Your currently doing it. So your consequences would be far more severe.

I'll let that choice upto you..

[Yamser]

this could also be asked about the opposite sex would you tell your new gf that you viseted escorts ? also yes i believe that ex corts lol should tell about being an escort if the guy likes you he shouldnt care what you did in the past , and if he cant cope with it maybe he doesnt deserve you

[very shy guy]

..do like an ex footballer;become a coach, a columnist or a n analyst? - hardly.You could do all the things u mention; if you find the right person,your past shouldn't be an issue...

Well put PK,a little happiness is all we want in life.

[Baxter]

this could also be asked about the opposite sex would you tell your new gf that you viseted escorts ? also yes i believe that ex corts lol should tell about being an escort if the guy likes you he shouldnt care what you did in the past , and if he cant cope with it maybe he doesnt deserve you

Yes, do you think that this would be a good and necessary move ?

[Baxter]

The difference between what you and Irene is its in her past. Your currently doing it. So your consequences would be far more severe.
I'll let that choice upto you..

Exactly, its all about consequences , not the strict principle of honesty then. There is a 'weighing up ' .

[Ebony Amber]

I personally would not advice telling a future partner about your past. At least not for a long time. Whilst it may be deceitful what happens if you spilt up on bad terms and he decides to use his knowledge against you. Not good.

[Baxter]

Of course you can have very nice life !! I finish work as an escort by the end of next month and I'm going to Florida to open a small business and enjoy life
*** I wish you luck girls ***

And the very best of luck !

[Bluehaven]

If she finds the right person, he will know everything about her, because true love conquers all