Genuine escorts or trfficed girls???

[mcgurk123]

I meet escorts at least 3 times a month and did not even think thay might be forced to do it till i watched a program about escorts and trafficed girls in northern Ireland the other night. I would not wanna meet a girl that is forced into it so i wanna know if it possiable to tell the different? Every escort iv been with seems happy enough and seem willing to be there

[LaBelleThatcher]

I shouldn't take everything you see on TV quite so seriously if I were you. It's usually clueless BS aimed at boosting ratings.

[EnglishAlex]

I meet escorts at least 3 times a month and did not even think thay might be forced to do it till i watched a program about escorts and trafficed girls in northern Ireland the other night. I would not wanna meet a girl that is forced into it so i wanna know if it possiable to tell the different? Every escort iv been with seems happy enough and seem willing to be there

If you met and was intimate with a lady who's been forced into the industry, the law would find you guilty of Rape so I'm not surprised by your concern.

Do research about the lady and look on other sites to see if she's advertised elsewhere too. 99% Independent's I know also use adultwork to advertise and some have had profiles on there for years.

If the lady answering the phone is not the lady you meet - ask why!
If the lady doesn't offer the services on her profile and seems clueless about what's on there - ask why!
If the lady is working in an apartment with a few others - be aware that you're in a brothel and they are illegal, regardless of whether the ladies are independent or not.

Reviews don't mean too much when it comes to indicating trafficking. There were ladies advertised on this site for a long time who were found to be involved upto their necks in organising prostitution and pimping other ladies.

We're all responsible for ourselves so don't allow your dick to keep you into a situation that your head is telling you is wrong. If you have doubt then do not go ahead with the appointment.

I shouldn't take everything you see on TV quite so seriously if I were you. It's usually clueless BS aimed at boosting ratings.

I don't think the programmes should be completely discounted. They alert people to the possibility of escorts working against their will. Granted, the situations are sensationalised but you can't just write off that some ladies are working against their will. Trafficking happens in every industry, the sex insdustry is a very lucrative place to put trafficked individuals due to return on investment.

[LaBelleThatcher]

I don't think the programmes should be completely discounted. They alert people to the possibility of escorts working against their will. Granted, the situations are sensationalised but you can't just write off that some ladies are working against their will. Trafficking happens in every industry, the sex insdustry is a very lucrative place to put trafficked individuals due to return on investment.

I dunno, I have looked and looked at the whole thing and I am convinced that almost all of it is just heavily funded abolitionist propaganda...with the only exceptions being that somebody does something exceptional nasty everywhere sooner or later.

In a long life of falling over the strangest people and things I have never come across evidence of one single person who has been anything resembling coercively trafficked for any reason (I have come across a few, effectively coerced sex workers but always as part of very abusive personal relationship they had landed in). I have, however, come across an endless stream of propaganda, rumour and panicmongering aimed at imposing very dishonest and destructive political agenda on other people's lives.

[UKHeather]

I dunno, I have looked and looked at the whole thing and I am convinced that almost all of it is just heavily funded abolitionist propaganda...with the only exceptions being that somebody does something exceptional nasty everywhere sooner or later.

In a long life of falling over the strangest people and things I have never come across evidence of one single person who has been anything resembling coercively trafficked for any reason (I have come across a few, effectively coerced sex workers but always as part of very abusive personal relationship they had landed in). I have, however, come across an endless stream of propaganda, rumour and panicmongering aimed at imposing very dishonest and destructive political agenda on other people's lives.

Recently I was chatting with a client who told me about an experience which concerned him greatly. It had happened recently. There is very little doubt in my mind as to what was going on in the situation he described. It was made more worrying by his concern regarding the age of the girl that was literally pushed out of the door of the lounge to meet with him!!

I'm not surprised you have never come across anyone who was in a situation other than of their own free will. I haven't either. Why would we? It's the clients who are going to come into contact with any such ladies.

To insist that their are no ladies out there being trafficked or coerced is just as foolish as stating that no sex worker is ever working of their own free will.

[Rachel Divine]

There is no way 100% sure of knowing an escort is truly independent by a internet research.

Is it coercing into prostitution? Yes. A very small % .. Do I know any escort in such situation? No. Did I ever come across with it? No.

The media will portrait the sex industry bad , they always did ... they will keep doing it. Why? Drama sells.

I am working for myself, on my own will and I have meet escorts in the same as myself. We are not invisible to the media ..we dont exist because doesnt suit their agenda.

In any moment a client feels the escort is not willing/happy to provide a service / to be working leave the premises ..

Not all ladies have a good English level , please bare that in mind. Doesnt mean they are forced into prostitution.

I recommend once more the use of pm system to ask reviewers about escorts. We can leave references to other ladies we have met as genuine.. That is important as well.

[Sexy Sandy 69]

I'm not saying that there are no trafficked girls, however I've never met any nor do I know of any. Having said that the girls I know & socalise with tend to be mature, UK escorts. We all make our own accommodation arrangement, travel & alot of the truely independent girls, post on the forums here.

If you read a profile & the girl is young with basic English yet she's managed to come to a foreign country & found an apartment to work from, think about it. When I was 19/20 & I didn't know the language of a foreign country, I wouldn't have been able to go across there, find accommodation & set myself up working as an escort. If you guys turn up & something 'concerns' you about the girl or the set up operating, such as several girls working from the same premises, it's simple walk out. If you stay & pay money, you are only lining the pockets of someone else who's behind the operation.

Sandy x

[Rachel Divine]

I'm not saying that there are no trafficked girls, however I've never met any nor do I know of any. Having said that the girls I know & socalise with tend to be mature, UK escorts. We all make our own accommodation arrangement, travel & alot of the truely independent girls, post on the forums here.

If you read a profile & the girl is young with basic English yet she's managed to come to a foreign country & found an apartment to work from, think about it. When I was 19/20 & I didn't know the language of a foreign country, I wouldn't have been able to go across there, find accommodation & set myself up working as an escort. If you guys turn up & something 'concerns' you about the girl or the set up operating, such as several girls working from the same premises, it's simple walk out. If you stay & pay money, you are only lining the pockets of someone else who's behind the operation.

Sandy x

Are you saying those ladies are trafficked/coerced into prostitution?

[UKHeather]

There is no way 100% sure of knowing an escort is truly independent by a internet research.

Is it coercing into prostitution? Yes. A very small % .. Do I know any escort in such situation? No. Did I ever come across with it? No.

The media will portrait the sex industry bad , they always did ... they will keep doing it. Why? Drama sells.

I am working for myself, on my own will and I have meet escorts in the same as myself. We are not invisible to the media ..we dont exist because doesnt suit their agenda.

In any moment a client feels the escort is not willing/happy to provide a service / to be working leave the premises ..

Not all ladies have a good English level , please bare that in mind. Doesnt mean they are forced into prostitution.

I recommend once more the use of pm system to ask reviewers about escorts. We can leave references to other ladies we have met as genuine.. That is important as well.

I don't know if it's a small % or not. Do you? How? Unless you have met every sex worker, spoken to them and they have been truthful with you, how could you know?
As I said, the clients are more likely to meet the sex workers than we are. Until an official and fair study is performed, I'll keep an open mind.
My objection is to the official line that's been peddled that all sex workers are forced in some way. I know that one isn't true.

[Sexy Sandy 69]

Are you saying those ladies are trafficked/coerced into prostitution?

No I'm not, what I'm saying is think about it. I can honestly say that I wouldn't have known where to start working abroad at such a young age with a basic knowledge of a foreign language. I dont know how these girls manage it either. If I was a guy & I was going to go to see these girls, I would be asking questions before I stayed.

Sandy x