Thread: mixed feelings

hiya cartman, your not wrong mate, some of the ladys out there are fantastic and you cant help feeling emotions towards them if you get the right girl and you click with like you did, even in a short period of time in the appointment.

happened to me once, met a fantastic lady had a fantastic time and we got on so well, it was like i known her for years, again she told me her name and some personal stuff, thought i was chasing a dream and on cloud 9, but it faded out, to this day i still think about her!

It's a hard pill to swallow but no good will come from an infatuation (can't be love after such a short encounter) with an escort.
Your just going to have to put her out of your mind... From an escorts prospective I remember Viollette who's opinions I would value saying it doesn't work... Life is not like the movies!!

Originally Posted by cartman

i recently meet a fantastic girl[escort]....after the first meeting..i felt like i knew her for ages....i went back to see her again....and we really got on so well....we talked ..laughted ..and really got on well....she told me her story...her real name...and were she was from...i really felt a connection with her......soon i relised i was after falling in love with her.....iv never felt that way about an escort befour......now she has gone and i feel terrible i never got to tell her wat i was feeling....i feel like i lost some one that i really was in love with.............am i wrong to feel this way....or stupid????

hey cartman.....now this advice is free to you my friend.....
you seem like a fab guy from what i know of you in the chat room ....a decent guy.....with a liking for all women.....
well lets be honest here anybody that goes to see an escort its there for 1 reason and 1 reason only........
and an escort only sees a guy for 1 reason and 1 reason only.....
wheather she is an independent or an agency.......escorts dont meet guys for love ....
i have met girls before and if i dont get a connection or "click" well then it isnt for me.....
maybe thats whats happening here....your confusing a click with a connection....
hmmmm.....maybe.....
but in Mr.Bs private life..........i have no regrets......i see something i want ...i get it......
we only get one chance at this life.....its important to make the most of it......no regrets....
but its very important to be able to tell the difference between ur personal life and fantasy ....
hope this helps somewhat towards ur situation........and its free...my friend,,,,,

Nothing ventured nothing gained Cartman.
The worst she can say is NO.
At least then you'll know where you stand rather than wondering what if.
I'm a firm believer in"you don't get if you dont ask!".
I wouldn't rule her out just because of her proffession.
I know it hasn't worked out for some people but even if it doesn't work out at least you'll have fun trying.

Originally Posted by cartman

i recently meet a fantastic girl[escort]....after the first meeting..i felt like i knew her for ages....i went back to see her again....and we really got on so well....we talked ..laughted ..and really got on well....she told me her story...her real name...and were she was from...i really felt a connection with her......soon i relised i was after falling in love with her.....iv never felt that way about an escort befour......now she has gone and i feel terrible i never got to tell her wat i was feeling....i feel like i lost some one that i really was in love with.............am i wrong to feel this way....or stupid????

i am sorry to hear that you are not wrong or stupid your only human and it happens to a lot more guys than you think but at least you have spoke about it and hopefully you will move on from this your best bet is to start to visit different escorts and have fun don't get involved remember the escorts are only doing there job take care cartman

I think Britvic's advice is pretty close to bang on, so i'm with Mr B on this one, it is an arrangement after all, nothing to stop a close friendship, just don't blur the lines

Originally Posted by anon361

It's a hard pill to swallow but no good will come from an infatuation (can't be love after such a short encounter) with an escort.
Your just going to have to put her out of your mind... From an escorts prospective I remember Viollette who's opinions I would value saying it doesn't work... Life is not like the movies!!

Wrong. When two ppl click they will click whether its five mins or five days. Although every situation is different i would be inclined to agree with Violette.

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To be honest Cartman.. you could tell her you have feelings she could tell you the same...but it would never work... somethings are best kept to yourself... yes you can feel a connection with escorts..but sure we are human and emotion is something everyone feels... it will destroy the two of you if you tell and i`m sure by she knows as i get the feeling she may still read the boards...xxx

Originally Posted by cartman

i recently meet a fantastic girl[escort]....after the first meeting..i felt like i knew her for ages....i went back to see her again....and we really got on so well....we talked ..laughted ..and really got on well....she told me her story...her real name...and were she was from...i really felt a connection with her......soon i relised i was after falling in love with her.....iv never felt that way about an escort befour......now she has gone and i feel terrible i never got to tell her wat i was feeling....i feel like i lost some one that i really was in love with.............am i wrong to feel this way....or stupid????

Cartman.. I fully understand your feelings but have you asked yourself one vital question.

Have you met an escort who offers the ultimate GFE.. so good that she convinced you she could actually be a girlfriend.